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Why You Know What to Do\u2026 \u00a0<\/strong>But Still Can\u2019t Start<\/strong><\/h3>\n

It\u2019s time to get real. You know what needs to get done. It\u2019s not at all a mystery, it\u2019s completely on your list, you\u2019ve thought about it many times (maybe too many times), it\u2019s staring at you straight in the face and guess what is happening? You\u2019re still not starting. You\u2019re still not getting it done.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, this is real. Yes, this happens to many people. Instead of starting, diving in, getting the task even initiated, you\u2019re doing other things. Maybe you\u2019re doing smaller things, easier things. Maybe you\u2019re not even doing anything at all, other than sitting in the reality of knowing you are not doing what you actually need to be doing. Paralyzing, isn\u2019t it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I know this feeling is frustrating. And immediately, for many people, it turns straight to, \u201cwhy am I like this!?\u201d… I get it. I am here to share that what\u2019s happening to you is not a new phenomenon. It\u2019s not a reflection of who you are. It\u2019s a sign of how you need support and help to get going.<\/span><\/p>\n

Difficulty doesn\u2019t always look like avoidance in a completely obvious sense. Difficulty can often look like re-writing your to-do list instead of actually beginning it, waiting for the \u201cright\u201d time, mood or energy to take over in your body, doing five other tasks before doing the one that truly matters, thinking about the task all day\u2026 but still not touching it, and often feeling a sense of pressure surrounding it all that makes it even harder to begin. From the outside it can look like procrastination, but from the inside it often feels very different. Task initiation is an executive functioning skill, not a moral virtue.<\/span><\/p>\n

So how do you make yourself start? How do you force yourself to begin when you know you need to but cannot seem to? Let\u2019s remind ourselves that starting a task isn\u2019t just about knowing what to do. Starting a task requires your brain to organize where to begin, manage the pressure tied to the task, push through any discomfort, uncertainty, or perfectionism, and shift from thinking to doing. That\u2019s actually a lot of steps for something that\u2019s supposed to feel \u201csimple\u201d, isn’t it? I think so. For many people\u2013 especially those dealing with executive functioning challenges\u2013 the barrier isn\u2019t laziness. It\u2019s friction. And the more pressure you place on yourself just to start a task, well the heavier that friction can feel.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What actually helps to serve as a jumpstart to feeling frozen, paralyzed, or the heavy weight of starting are tangible micro steps forward. Instead of trying to force an overwhelming momentum of change and beginning, it can help to make the starting points smaller, realistic and much more clear. Try defining the first step in a way that almost feels *too* easy \u2013 you don\u2019t have to start the project, just open the document. Give yourself a limited entry point \u2013 \u201cI\u2019ll work on this for fifteen minutes\u2026\u201d instead of \u201cI need to finish this as soon as possible.\u201d Reduce decision-making in advance \u2013 set up everything you might need before you even begin. And perhaps a most important micro step to remember: let go of the idea that you need to feel ready. Starting often creates momentum, not the other way around. Let yourself find the energy as you begin and you\u2019ll be surprised where it often takes you\u2026 like to the end of a task!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If starting an assignment, project, task or list is something that you struggle with, it\u2019s not a reflection of your work ethic or even abilities. It\u2019s often a sign that your brain needs a different kind of support when it comes to getting started. And once you understand that, you can begin to approach it in a way that works with you, not against you. <\/span><\/p>\n



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Why You Know What to Do\u2026 \u00a0But Still Can\u2019t Start It\u2019s time to get real. You know what needs to get done. 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